Jeez what a thread! If nothing else, Igloo, where abouts are you based? I starting going to an airsoft site in Warrick a few years ago, kept having a laugh and a joke with one of the marshals there. Got invited work for the site part time, which gave me more time to hang out there and meet people. In just under two weeks, that marshal and I are celebrating 4 years together! Don't write off Airsoft, you just might be going to the wrong sites Depending on where you're based, would be cool to meet new airsofting buddies, specially as you're a biker too.. but your a woman in a male dominated hobby....always got the odds in your favour. no disrespect jin... i found most online sites wierd, met a few but found true love at work with one of my female colleagues. stole and hid her shoes while she dozed on lunch time.... i feel if you looking for it, it hides from you, when you stop looking it comes to find you.... as your just you, and not pretending to be a different you.