where do we draw the line? Currently im 22 and im seeing/dating a 41 year old woman. if you're 18 you're a responsible adult and answerable for your actions. fair enough girls who are 16 should be more careful, perhaps the "critical thinking" and "general studies" curriculums should be updated to include making smart life choices. like not bedding your teacher when youre 15. I'm not saying what the guy did was right, but you cant blame it all on him. in my eyes anyone over the age of 15 should have enough common sense to make those choices. i know and you are right.